The USA and Me
As I twitted, from today onward, Koreans can travel to the USA without visas for up to 90 days. On this historical day, I would like to talk about my link with the USA.
Since my first living abroad was in the Netherlands, I have become pro-Europe but I’m quite certain that if it was in the States, I’d have been at the forefront of promoting its culture like I’ve been with the Irish one. Interestingly, however, before I went to the Netherlands in 2003, my view on the Western world had been formed heavily based on how the US was projected in me from my childhood.
My parents, who were very keen about education, bought me a set of English books and cassette tapes directly licensed by the American publishing company when, if I could remember, I was three years old. Through a family of anthropomorphised rabbits in the books, I could observe the different settings of the Americans’ daily lives: two-storied house with a garden and a garage, big shopping mall where people carries carts, school bus, Christmas and so on. And as lovers of pop music, my parents also had a big collection of 60’s to 80’s pop music and I think I listened to these songs more than to children’s songs.
When I grew up to be a teenager, I recall it was a booming period of absorbing American culture and most of the channels were through media. You could easily imagine how I understood the Western world - which practically meant the US only at that time - with the names I list as following:
• New Kids On The Block - These five boys from Boston had a significant influence on my interest in English language because what I did during my spare time in junior high school was mostly singing along their songs and trying to understand what the lyrics meant. I actually thank them for this and next February in Amsterdam, I’ll finally see these now-men after nearly two-decade since I became their fan. Not only their songs but their music videos - yeah, we are the generation of MTV - stimulated my curiosity about the Western life with the sights and incidents filmed in the videos.
• Toy Soldiers- As an adolescent girl who reached the stage of valuing friendship most in life, this movie fired my fantasy of the perfect friendship, trouble-making at school, dormitory life, and teenage hero. I liked the film so much that I bought the video tape from the video rental shop, which was very rare for anyone of my age at that time, and that I even rewrote the story by adding myself as a troublemaking girl who was sent by her parents to the boarding school, where there are only boys, as a very exceptional case. I named her (or myself) Kevin to defeminise her original name, Catherine, with a thought at the time that the first sounds of these two names were the same. Anyway, this is not the end of the story. I even wrote my first-ever fan mail to Sean Astin to the Tri Star in Hollywood, which produced ‘Toy Soldiers’ and which was listed by a Korean film magazine to send a fan letter to. (The mail was returned to me a couple of months later, though, with a stamp of wrong address.) Now you can imagine how sad I was when I saw Sean Astin in the first piece of the Lord of the Rings. I was really shocked at how much a person can change over a decade.
• TV Series - The Wonder Years, Doogie Howser, M.D., Beverly Hills 90210 up to my teenage and Ally McBeal and Sex and the City in my adulthood: No more words needed, right?
With this visa waver programme, I now can directly experience the American culture without the heavy burden of application with the various documents and a lot of money. As much as the gap between fantasy and reality, my future experience in this vast territory of Northern America will be different from what I had learned and saw from all those pieces of American pop culture. However, I’m excited to be able to see and feel them in their own country, recalling the fanatical curiosity about the world outside from my childhood.

Elisabeth:
How great! I hope you do come to the US! …Your list of what influenced your perceptions of US culture made me smile…they’re not so different than the ones I might have listed from my junior high to adult years, though I always teased my friends about having crushes on the New Kids.
At one point a couple of friends of mine bought engraved rings for each of the band members and threw them up on stage during a concert!
Wow… I’d be curious to see where you’d go first. Both coasts are so different (culture-wise) from each other, and the “fly-over” country between then is even more different. (I’m in the fly-over, obviously, but I still think it’s a funny term.) I’m so glad the visas between US and Korea are equal now. It wasn’t fair the other way around.
19 November 2008, 4:55 amDalicia:
I see that Koreans are interested in American culture. I think it’s more about their social life, their directness and way of life. Much of their culture comes from the Europeans.
The good news is, you don’t need to apply for a Visa. That can be a real headache. I do hope you’ll have a much better experience than me when you visit the US. I do notice that with recession. A colored person like myself are getting SERVICE. Finally…!!
26 November 2008, 2:45 amSunkyoung:
Elisabeth - Engraved rings! Hahaha, I wonder how all those girls are doing now.
When I go to NKOTB’s concert, I think all the girls gathering there will have a kind of strong feeling of unity that we all passed some simialar stages no matter where we were at that time.
I’m also curious about where my first destination in the States will be. Maybe Boston, as it’s home for NKOTB.
But I will definitely visit the ‘fly-over’ state as well to see your family. Look forward to that!
Dalicia - Before this change, yes, it costed a lot of money and lots of time as well. There used to be always such a long queue in front of the US Embassy for the interview. Visiting and living in a place is hugely different but I hope my future travel to the US will be pleasant.
14 December 2008, 7:18 pmKML:
Come visit me in Boston some time 2009 fall to 2011 spring - it may be the last time I live in the US if I can find a job in Europe!
19 December 2008, 5:18 amSunkyoung:
Oh, right, you will be back to Boston in the autumn next year! Well, not only as New Kids on the Block’s hometown but also as another cultural setting, Boston formed a part of my perceptions of the USA. I really liked Erich Segal’s “Doctors” which I read in my teenage and also enjoyed the TV series “The Paper Chase” even before then. And you can see how much these cultural pieces influenced Korean people’s way of understanding your school.
20 December 2008, 5:31 pmStill Passing By:
I had a similar conversation with a Korean sinologist recently, about the absorption of American popular culture by both South Korea and Japan, without rejecting their underlying cultures. We came to a similar conclusion by slightly different routes - for instance, I tend to think of “Western” as a state of mind, rather than a particular ethnicity - that it represented an extremely healthy attitude.
After the calamity of the Korean War, South Korea immediately welcomed the financial security which peace brought. Likewise, post-1945 ordinary Japanese could not be expected to forget their horrendous experiences, but did the same; and many also came to accept their country’s misdeeds during the Meiji and early Showa periods.
6 January 2009, 2:25 am